Once someone judges you based off of your weight it makes you feel negative towards yourself. Well I know that happens with me internally. I feel belittled and reduced to the size of a pebble; but I know I am not the only person who suffers from this thought process of self doubt and lack of confidence in one's beauty. I personally feel to heavy, I went into this store Agaci, or Hollister, I saw a nice pair of baby blue jeans and asked if they had a size 10. They said our largest size is a 9, it was very upsetting. I am not a toothpick, I eat, and my body type is rather muscular and I have a larger frame than pettite girls. But that really got on my nerves, I felt like saying how dare you discriminate against people such as myself with larger pants sizes. The same concept applies to people who are quite thin and feel uncomfortable with their body. Do not let others tell you that you are not beautiful. Do not give them the authority over your body. If your spouse/ partner in the relationship wants you to change your body, no offense but they are not worth your time. Leave them, because they should love you regardless of your weigth. So essentially screw them ( not literally though :) ), love yourself enough to care about your thoughts not others perspectives.