The term applied to perception is king, is for the audience. To be able to understand how vitally important that must be. It means that the population, including myself spend a vast amount of time stressing over what other people say. Why? Is the even bigger picture. We should each say aloud WHO CARES!!!!!!, well life is bull, honestly. We are all critical and judgemental, even if we do not mean to. It is unfortunatly our fight/ flight response. It is in our genetic coding to respond to a stimulus, therefore we home in on the person presented in front of us. So essentially it is a contradiction, basically what I am getting at is, yes you should carry yourself in a presentable manner but you should not overly care to the point that it makes youo concerned. Not just about your apperance but personality as well. It well then ruin your life, and it is no longer for the better (well maybe it was never for the better). Just stay true to who you are. As I always say do not alter yousrelf to fit the dress, alter the dress to fit you. Now this is some advice I have for you take it to heart, use it throughout your life and don't feel that you have to change yourself.